Civil Partnerships in Spain

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Civil Partnerships in Spain

Postby mijasgolf » Fri Nov 02, 2007 4:10 pm

If you know any gay couples who have had a civil ceremony in the UK and now live here then they should know this.

A spanish gay couple who marry in Spain then move to the UK are recognised in the UK as being married giving them all the same rights as the British,
A gay British couple who have their ceremony in the UK then move to Spain are not recognised as being civil partners here.
This means and I am speaking from experience I have no rights here in Spain to bury my civil partner if anything should happen even if a will is made.
His family have more rights here than me.
The matter is currently being discussed at the British Embassy and I am hoping all members here will support people like myself and my partner.

Please forward the following to this address please pm me to let me know you have done so.
[email protected]

Dear Mr Holloway
We are writing to you with regards to British Civil Partnerships in Spain.
We request that the Spanish Goverment change the laws regarding this issue.
Please forward our concerns onto The British Ambassador and David Milliband.
Yours Sincerely

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Postby El Cid » Fri Nov 02, 2007 6:44 pm

Why don't you just get your partnership recognised under Spanish law - it's an easy process.

Incidentally the Spanish allow civil partnerships between heterosexual couples - the UK does not. Presumably in this case a Spanish heterosexual civil partnership would not be recognised in the UK.

Perhaps, for the sake of equality, you should take that up with the British Embassy as well.

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Postby mijasgolf » Fri Nov 02, 2007 6:48 pm

El Cid
when a straight couple marry in a registrars office in the UK it is classed as a civil wedding the same as a civil partnership in the UK we have the same rights as any married couple.What we are fighting for which has been dealt with at the embassy is a reciprical agreement between the two countries not just one sided...

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Postby Campo Kenny » Fri Nov 02, 2007 7:03 pm

Succinct as ever Sid, well said

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Postby mijasgolf » Fri Nov 02, 2007 7:05 pm

well said but incorrect

Campo Kenny

Postby Campo Kenny » Fri Nov 02, 2007 7:11 pm

Is this post purely to wind people up or is it just me being touchy after being off the cigs for over one whole day.

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Postby mijasgolf » Fri Nov 02, 2007 7:12 pm

its a true posting and many expats are affected by this law

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Postby laclotte » Fri Nov 02, 2007 7:28 pm

Campo Kenny wrote:is it just me being touchy after being off the cigs for over one whole day.
Yep'....you being touchy :roll:
Congrats :!: Probably no one wanted to ask :!:
Keep it up and again 'bon chance' :wink:
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Postby El Cid » Fri Nov 02, 2007 7:33 pm

mijasgolf wrote:well said but incorrect
Yes it is correct.

When a straight couple become partners legally in the UK it is classified as a civil marriage.This is the only option available.

In Spain you have the option of a civil "marriage" or a civil partnership - not so in the UK.

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Postby Bongtrees » Fri Nov 02, 2007 8:05 pm

There are several ways for same sex, unmarried couples or just good friends to buy property jointly in Spain and retain the property if one of them dies.

As was always the case in the UK.

People just have to make suitable arrangements.

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Postby k » Sat Nov 03, 2007 1:40 am

Bongtrees, Aren't you missing the point, there should be no need to 'make suitable arrangements'. Surely you can appreciate, amongst other things, gay couples have been fighting for equal rights and death benefits / rights is one of them.

El Cid, 'why don't you just get it recognised under spanish law' - Why should he need to when we are all in this lovely melting pot of the EU? Regarding the take up the case of civil partnership for hetrosexuals; Have you forgotten that hetrosexuals have always been able to choose to get married be it in church or registary. Gay couples have never had the choice.

Was the warped humour from rotten Johnny funny, yes it was. I am sure Mijas golf would have accepted it if there had been some positive feedback first.

Mijas - This was a new bit of info for me, I wish you luck.

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Postby mijasgolf » Sat Nov 03, 2007 11:05 am

Thanx for your feedback K.
At present there is no legislation here in Spain to recognise our civil partnership.
What my argument is as follows
Why should our country the UK allow spanish gay weddings to be recognised when spain wont recognise a british civil partnership.

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Postby mary b » Sat Nov 03, 2007 11:08 am

why not just get married again in Spain ,any excuse for a party
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Postby mijasgolf » Sat Nov 03, 2007 11:33 am

Mary
Because the UK recognise our civil ceremony there if we married here then went to the UK we would be classed as bigamists.
We would have to disolve our british civil ceremony there first.
We do not beleive that we should have to.

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Postby Rotten Johnny » Sat Nov 03, 2007 11:43 am

My comments of yesterday as you can see have been wiped, I did, unreservedly apologise, the joke was meant to be a pun on both Campo Kenny's battle against nicotine and the old fashioned bigoted expression referring to homosexuals, even though it was wiped I'd still like to make it clear that although I intended a little mischief no malice was intended.
To the original poster, when you are "different" however you interpret that word, be it Racially, sexually, religiously, or whatever, mainstream society is often afraid of you, usually because they don't understand you, in your situation you just need time it won't happen overnight, women waited for the vote, forty years ago homosexual men could still be jailed, look how far you've come in just one generation, everything comes but it takes time.
to be honest with you issues of sexual orientation are not at the top of my list, the situation in the middle east is of far more importatnce to me at the moment, if madmen like Bush and those who support him are not brought to heel there won't be anything for us, good luck in your crusade.

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Postby mijasgolf » Sat Nov 03, 2007 11:49 am

this topic is not about the middle east its about expats having the same rights as the spanish do in the uk.
We are supposed to be in the EU.

The sad thing is there are still many homophobic people out there.
I never chose to be gay......
News stats state one if five people are gay this means most families in the world will have one member of the family who are gay.
Im not saying people have to beleive in this we all have our own opinions.
As I said before I pay my taxes here in Spain and have a high salary so probably pay more taxes than most spanish but I wish to be treated the same as them.
The Home secretary for the UK and Spain met on 16th August to discuss our case.
But the more people email the embassy about this matter the quicker it will be dealt with.

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Postby Campo Kenny » Sat Nov 03, 2007 12:15 pm

Ahh, the homophobic word once more...........this is why a civil conversation is hard to have on this toic. If you are gay you can say what you like. If you are straight you have to choose your words either with with care or lie.

If people are uncomfortable with, or do not like this particular lifestyle there is no harm in that, and being able to say that should not attract the pathetic title of homophobic...........also there are far more important issues in which ex. pats are penalised than this, why would any ordinary person want to join this particular minority crusade, I don't get it sorry :roll:

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Postby mijasgolf » Sat Nov 03, 2007 12:19 pm

Campo Kenny
Be assured the gay community is no longer a minority.
Torremolinos is now the gay capitol of Europe.
This is a more important issue than getting my car to spain, or how do I apply for a NIE number or even sky television in Spain

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Postby spanish hopes » Sat Nov 03, 2007 12:26 pm

Mijasgolf, Torremolinos is a very, very small part of Europe so hardly lifts being gay above minority group status. No I am not homophobic but am certainly with Kenny when he says it is an easy put down tag to throw at anyone who doesn't agree to join in with the campaign. :roll:

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Postby Alan-LaCala » Sat Nov 03, 2007 12:27 pm

I think you have to recognise that despite both the Uk and Spain being in the EU, there are many differences still in the laws of the 2 countries. A fact that the UK is currently defending in respect of opt outs of the proposed new treaty.

Just look at the differences in the benefits system and dealing with homelessness.

In my view Spain has only gone as far as it has in repect of civil partnerships because there is a socialist government in power. It will be interesting to see what happens should the government change next year.

I wish you success in your campaign. There are a lot of issues to campaign on in Spain, and we all have to decide for ourselves where to put our time and efforts. For me, in the totality if injustices in the world, gay rights does not come anywhere near the top.

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