The other side of the coin though is that it can also be a complete pain in the @rse

We've learned our lesson, if we decide to go for a meal we like to have a few drinks in various bars, but it's come to the point that we have to avoid some of our favourite places as you know the guy out of frendliness will slide a plate of tapas across..............it's so embarrssing to say no thanks. We have got is sussed now but so many meal plans were scuppered through being "stuffed" and deciding not to go to resteraunt.
Yep, if the barman gives you a nice tapas it's purely because he wants to, and if you take it there is no shame.........................unless you ask for some chips to go with it

Kenny